I had Lauren's ears pierced when she was 6 months old. To anyone with a daughter, I highly recommend doing it when they are little. She only cried for a few seconds and she has no memory of it hurting. Anyway, she went through a couple sets of earrings the first year or so until I finally bought a set that had screw on backs. I've taken them out periodically to clean them and clean her ears, but the last several months or so, I've noticed that they seemed to be sinking into her ears. I think the post is too short and they are growing into her ears. So I finally bought an adult pair at a
jewelry party and I got the earrings today.
Let me mention that for some reason Lauren has convinced herself that it is tremendously painful to remove her earrings and will not let me touch them. So when I showed her the new earrings, she was less than thrilled about putting them in. After a few threats of me holding her down and removing the old earrings, she finally agreed to let me take the baby earrings out. Now, here's the tricky part. I had promised her that it would not hurt to remove the earrings. That was before I had a chance to fully inspect them and see that her left ear was trying to fuse with the earring. Yikes! So I begin trying to pull the earring out and it is stuck. She of course can sense my nervousness and begins to
whimper. Her
whimper turns into a cry which turns into an all out fit. After several tugs, the earring comes out. Well, now there is no way in hell she is going to let me put the new earrings in. I convince her that it is not going to hurt and let her rub the antiseptic on her ears and on the new earrings. Then I tell her it's time to put the new ones in.
R: Okay, let's put the pretty new earrings in your ears.
L: (crying) No, it's going to hurt.
R: No it won't. Do you want to do it?
L: (still crying) Yes.
I hand her the earring and she begins stabbing herself in the ear all over the place. After a few seconds, I grad the earring with one had and grab her hands with the other. This sends her into a tizzy with lots of crying. I stick the earring in and say "There, it's in." She pauses and kind of half laughs and half cries and says "Do the other one."
Once the earrings are in, she parades around the room and checks herself out several times in the mirror, before
announcing that she will not take a bath tonight because she doesn't want to mess up her pretty new earrings. We compromised with taking a bath but not washing her hair.
She really takes a simple situation and turns it into a dramatic one.